Ciência revela: Segredo para ser mais amado está em uma pergunta

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Algumas pessoas são naturalmente extrovertidas e fazem amigos com facilidades, outras têm mais dificuldade com as interações sociais.

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E se está procurando algo que possa te ajudar a ser mais bem-visto pelos outros, a ciência pode ter encontrado a resposta para o seu problema.

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Para ser mais gostado é muito simples: é preciso perguntar. Quanto mais questionar sobre o outro, mais ele vai gostar de você.

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Vale perguntar qualquer coisa, desde que seja sobre o tema da conversa e que mostre ao outro que está interessado no que ele diz.

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Quem descobriu o segredo foram quatro cientistas da Universidade de Harvard, nos Estados Unidos, ao longo de quatro estudos.

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Porém, para causar uma boa impressão, é importante lembrar que as questões devem ser feitas no tempo certo e de maneira coerente com a conversa.

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Se quiser entender mais sobre o estudo, pode clicar aqui!

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